Tit for tat, it’s funny how people can judge you…

Hey, it’s Aavi again, and I guess I’m here to splurge my thoughts all over the place. Have you ever been judged by someone for something that’s not a big deal ? And that the someone who’s judging you has done much worse ? If so, join the party !

Shortly after high school ended, there was a girl from the same high school, who had graduated with me in my year. She was really pretty and she seemed so chill, of course at the time, I guess those were good enough. After sometime though, I lost contact with her because that was the time that I had deleted social media. Probably shortly after that, this girl that I liked also fell of the grid, and no one could find me.

It was no secret as to how much I liked this girl, all my friend knew this, including my best friend at the time. And when I say best friend, I mean someone who I’ve known for a good 10 years. I tried a few times to find her, but to no avail. Recently this best friend sent me a screenshot of a convo with the girl. Judging from the convo, it seemed that they had been in contact for a while. Which sucked for me, because my best friend did nothing to mention this or help me, despite knowing my feelings.

Fast forward to tonight, I discovered that she had gotten FB back (I was scrolling though a friends account). And I made mention of this to this best friend. My exact words to her was “*Insert name* is back on FB and is *flame emoji*”. That’s literally what I said…and all my best friend had to say was “Damn, that’s creepy”…

Perhaps it was ? And if so, please let me know in the comments.

But it’s most likely because my best friend was petty, because of a joke I made about her gaining weight (I know her for 10 years, I mean c’mon). Also, because when she showed me the screenshot of the chat, she literally said it was too spite me.

Which is fine I guess….except at one point, this best friend was making out with a guy in a relationship whilst simultaneously rebounding of her ex. And she brushes all of this off as if it’s nothing major. So I mean, OBVIOUSLY, I’m the piece of trash in this situation…

I need to sleep, I have a stats paper tomorrow.

Ciau guys

JSK!

3 Comments Add yours

  1. I honestly hope she didn’t mean that personally! I think it’s perfectly normal to want to reconnect with someone who we may have lost touch with in the past, so i don’t really see how it’s creepy 😦 But I’m sure she didn’t really mean it since youve been best friends for so long! It’s kind of interesting to hear other peoples stories like this, feels like authors like you on here are human at least to speak your heart out! Thanks for sharing 🙂

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    1. Aavi Uchiha says:

      Hey, well hopefully you’re right! If you like this style of blogging (personal storytelling) maybe, I’ll write more.

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      1. I think it’s pretty cool but do whatever works for you or whatever you feel comfortable sharing with people c: ! I’d definitely be interested in more stories though!

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